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What's LOVE Got to Do with It?

Love has everything to do with the soulwave/motherwave experience. You will learn practical, simple techniques to directly experience and “ride” or “surf” the deep waves of energy that move through your body, mind and feeling self from the universe. Surfing these waves reconnects you with your soul, your real mother, in a palpable way, so that you experience living in a universal ocean of love, instead of feeling alone and separate. Over time, this practice can gradually heal your love-life from within, at a level that is true, deep and non-theoretical.

If you’re reading this, you are probably a mammal, as well as being a soul or spirit. As mammalian humans, we are designed for connection. Research has shown that we would have died without at least the minimal amount of hands-on love, as children. Yet a Tibetan man I know of recently said that for the first 7 years of his life he was never out of someone’s arms, day and night! As a result, he feels deeply secure and physically connected to the physical universe (not just some inner “spiritual” version) as a source of nurturing and love.

How does this compare to your experience? Many of us try to get what we didn’t get in childhood through our current intimate relationships, yet this is not the whole answer. The problem comes from the so-called “gosling effect,” described by scientists who have found that baby mammals and birds will bond with whatever is there in their infancy. If a gosling sees you first after hatching from the egg, it will follow you saying, “Are you my mother?”

Mother represents our source, our wellspring of love and nurturing. If she is distant and ambivalent, we will grow up with a tendency to bond with distant and ambivalent people, trying to get them to change and love us properly. They often cannot, since (duh!) we have chosen them in the first place because they have identical energetic signatures to the ones who couldn’t fully nurture us when we were tiny. (Are you starting to see how it might be helpful for us to get in touch with the “mother” or “soul” of all waves, to help heal these painful imprints? Especially since we ourselves are made up of waves...)

So for many of us, love and intimacy are fraught with complication; yet the longing for full, connected, physically-felt love doesn’t go away, however much we may try to think positively, convince ourselves that we are okay, bury our “talking heads” in a computer screen and numb out our feeling selves. Yet in many cases, we are only half-alive. In fact, many of us haven’t even fully incarnated yet! Try asking yourelf this question quickly wthout thinking about it: What percentage is my soul really incarnated in my body right now?

Whatever percentage you got (and people generally report a figure between about 3% and 100%), the soulwave experience can bring you further into a direct, in-the-body experience of being loved by a friendly universe. Bringing more love into their lives is the most common result for which the 1000+ former students blame this work. They say that the field of safety and unconditional love created in the trainings is like coming home to the family experience they always wanted. And more importantly, they say that through ongoing practice of the wavy methodology, they can access this loving field at any time. So love has everything to do with the soulwave experience.